This page is intended for spouses, partners, and children of new students and scholars. Hub Page View: Before You Leave Home What to bring with you, and other tips to help you prepare for your new home. Finding Community When you first arrive to New Haven, it can feel overwhelming to know where to start to find new friends and a community to support you. Yale IDs for Spouses & Partners Spouses and same-sex civil union partners of students and scholars are eligible for a Yale University access card.